gain midlife boundaries

How Are Others Making You Feel?

After decades of taking care of others, are you finding yourself pissed off and mopey as you continue to be everything to everyone?

We go through busy times and that turns into going with the flow and surviving another day. When this happens some people will creep over your boundaries, leaving you angry and defeated.

Take control of your happiness with clear boundaries.

Controlling The Boundary Creepers

We all have them: those people who will move in with their own wants and needs if we don't set good boundaries. Next thing you know, you feel like a doormat...again.

That's on us for not saying what we want and for failing to define what is ok - not ok. Of course that can be difficult if you don't know the answer yourself.

By setting boundaries, you determine how YOU will be treated and what is acceptable to you. Both of these increase your happiness!

no doormat boundaries

I want you to gain clarity in three specific areas.

  • Clarity on what a healthy relationship means to you.
  • Identify who you are allowing to create chaos in your life.
  • Create a plan for conversations with people about the life you now choose.

I know it's not easy. But neither is being miserable every day because you don't know what your boundaries are, you just know it isn't what's going on presently.

I'll walk you through the steps and help you create the plan. While this can be difficult work, I promise, this is a confidence builder.

Workshop is full, sign up below to get notice when self-study is released.

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Hi, I'm Val.

OMG I spent some years with wishy-washy boundaries. I was trying to be everything to everyone and completely who I was.

It wasn't until I started figuring out what I wanted to do with my life after the kids were grown that I realized I had serious boundary issues. As in everyone I had around me thought they had free reign to come and go as they please and act how they wanted.

We Create Our Environment

I take full responsibility for creating an environment where everyone in my life thought they could act anyway they wanted. By NOT making choices for myself and not sticking to boundaries it was what I had told them was ok.

I could not find my confidence nor happiness by continuing on that path. I had to take control of my life and guide others into changes with me.

But here's what I learned in the process of creating my Midlife Boundaries. 

  • Not everyone I had in my life had my best interests at heart.
  • I honestly had nothing in common with some people.
  • Difficult conversations bond you.
  • Good boundaries attract good people.

I’m going to guide you through a process of figuring out what you want your boundaries to start looking like. I am specifically saying "start" because as we grow, our boundaries can change with us.

I do not want you to look at this workshop as cleaning house on your relationships. Not at all. You are going to get tools and make lists. You will choose which boundaries are getting crossed and which ones you need to change when.

The great news is our lists will also show you who you already have good boundaries with. You will take a look at those and see how you can get some more of that! We will CELEBRATE these awesome people in our life!

Are You Ready To Set Your Midlife Boundaries & Create More Happiness? 

I can't freaking wait to hear how it changes you!

Here's what your workshop includes:

  • Printable Midlife Boundaries Workbook. 
  • 4 live group sessions.
  • Session replays.

Session dates are all 7pm EST/4pm PST:

  • Tuesday February 16
  • Thursday February 18
  • Tuesday February 23
  • Thursday February 25

You'll walk away knowing the power you have over your life, the awesome people you are surrounded by, and where you need to make changes.


Create Your Bold Midlife Boundaries NOW for only $97

Workshop is full, sign up below to get notice when self-study is released.

Live Boldly,

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BONUS: All Midlife Boundaries workshop participants will get a free month into Bold Besties. This will give you a safe space to work even deeper on some tough conversations you may need to make.

Easy Guarantee: You can request a full refund, no questions asked within 7 days of purchase.


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