Are You Tired Of Not Knowing What You Want to Do With Your Life?

Midlife changes are no joke!

It's possible, you've been living your life for everyone else for so long now, you've lost touch with your identity. Perhaps you've raised a family, built a business or climbed the corporate ladder and until now now have felt purpose in that role - but now what? Roles change and who we are starts to feel unneeded - have you ended up feeling a bit lost? Or like you just don't know where to go from here?


We encourage all our loved ones to grow and change, but can we say that about ourselves?


I'm here to tell you, you don't have to keep doing the same things just because you always have. 

Are You Craving Something Different?

I want you to look back on the decades and appreciate all you’ve done and how far you’ve come, AND know you have so many years of awesome things ahead.  There are amazing possibilities to be explored.

  • Remember old dreams full of grand plans.
  • Passions for creativity can be renewed.
  • Your personal hunger for achievement can finally be given free reign!

All the things we laid aside to focus on building a life - they weren't meant to collect dust forever and Now Is The Time!!


I want to take you by the hand and help you figure out what you want to pick back up again or discover anew and then choose what your next steps will be!

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A Little About Me.

Hi, I’m Val Selby and I come from a long line of women who put everyone else in their life ahead of themselves.


I fell into those same patterns I watched my Mom go through and once my kids were grown, I was completely lost. I'm proud of the family I raised, but I had to figure out where I fit into the world after they were grown.


I started evaluating everything going on and if it made me happy and figured out how to grab more of the happy.

I Continue On A Journey

I've been figuring things out and I'm having a blast along the way. 

  • I’ve gone Jeeping with some women all on my own. (Gasp, no hubby to bail me out of tight spots and steep downhills!)
  • I’ve gone on business trips and coaching clinics on my own to improve myself and get more skills I love.
  • I embraced fishing as a good way to get a tan all summer long. Plus our boat is all glittery...I mean really,...GLITTER!
  • I’ve reconnected with old friends going through the same point in life.
  • After a lifetime of vacations built around the family, my hubby and I finally took a vacation all around MY interests!  I ran a half marathon in Vegas!
  • I spoke at a conference and learned I WANT TO DO MORE OF THAT!

I’m no longer afraid to say yes to me and I love trying new things. 


A big thing is I'm no longer afraid to fail. I have pages full of stuff I want to try and some of it I'm really going to suck at.


Guess, what? That's ok because I'm also finding things I had no idea I was amazing at!


I’m excited for the years to come and I wouldn't be if I hadn't made the choice to finally make myself a priority.


I'm finally stacking up adventures and accomplishments, instead of missed opportunities.


It’s time for you to change your mindset and realize YOU are a priority too. You deserve all the happiness you can grab and I can show you how to grab it.


Choose Happiness 
Over Constant Frustration!


  • Frustration because you put everyone else first and they don’t even recognize your sacrifices.
  • Frustration that you are stuck in the same cycle: get up, work, clean, tv, bed…wash, rinse, repeat.
  • Frustration because you don’t know what you want to do with the rest of your day, let alone the rest of your life and you have plenty of life left to live.

As a woman on the other side of forty, I’ve been in the same boat.


The frustration leads to anger because you can’t get what you want out of the rest of your life if you don’t know what the hell you want!

Introducing the
"WHAT DO I WANT?" Workshop

what do i want workshop

I'm asking you to commit just 14 days to improving your happiness and figuring out what's next


The What Do I Want? Workshop is an investment in you. Imagine if you were excited to get up tomorrow because you know exactly what you want to do and the direction you want to go.


I want you to be EXCITED as you look ahead!

What Are We Going To DO?

  • Look at the choices you've been making, because they really are YOUR choices. 
  • Spot the comfort zones you're hiding in, let's make them uncomfortable!
  • Celebrate where you've been, owning your amazingness in every role you've ever taken on.
  • Notice how you've been defining yourself through the years.
  • Create a new vision for your amazing tomorrows.
  • Drop doubts that hold you back and dream bigger than ever!
  • Realize, once and for all, you've never needed permission - but you've got it anyways!

How Are We Going To DO It?

  • 4 Live Group Coaching Sessions
  • Printable Workbook
  • Private group to ask me questions and celebrate epiphanies.

Save the dates! Live Sessions are at 8pm EST/5pm PST. Plan on a minimum of an hour.

  • Tuesday August 4th
  • Thursday August 6th
  • Tuesday August 11th
  • Thursday August 13th


I'm Guiding You Through A Complete Inventory Of What You Really Want.

You're going to lean into questions you haven't given yourself time to consider in years and I promise, I won't let you sell out on yourself - not even a little bit - because NOW's the time to go for YOUR dreams!


You're going to lean into questions you haven't given yourself time to consider in years and I promise, I won't let you sell out on yourself - not even a little bit - because NOW's the time to go for YOUR dreams!


  • Session 1 - We are digging right into the choices you make every day. It's time to flip the switch that you don't have enough time. There are other factors as to why you are putting yourself and your wants last.
  • Session 2 - Remember back to a time when you thought you could do anything and you were going to be President and a ballerina? We're going to reach out to that inner child and see what "silly" ideas are still buried under all this adulting. This session is a giant, fun look at your past, present and future. The more ridiculous you think the idea is, the more we can pull something relevant from it. It's time to dream again. 
  • Session 3 - Your perfect life. Sure, life is not perfect, but the fact that we want it to be is the kicker. We are going to dive into what your perfect life looks like. It's time to get concrete with all the brainstorming ideas.
  • Session 4 - You have 3 things you want to go for and it's time to put the plan in place to do them!
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Are You Ready To Continue Your Life Story In BIG, BOLD & AWESOME WAYS? 

You can do this! Commit to 14 days with me in a mind blowing workshop


To recap what's included:

  • 4 Live Group Coaching Sessions
  • Printable workbook for you to gain clarity and direction. 
  • Facebook Group to ask questions


You'll walk away with more clarity than you've ever known,

leading to greater happiness and life satisfaction!


What Do I Want? Workshop

Join NOW for only $97

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Live Boldly,

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Easy Guarantee:

You can request a full refund, no questions asked

within 7 days of purchase.


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