Asking a woman if they’ve been told to change something about their personality is like asking a woman if they’ve ever had bread.
Everyone can answer yes.
They may not have directly told you to make changes to your personality, so it comes off as more subtle. Easier to brush it off. It could have been “the look” you got which you know means to stop it or hush. Or the one I hate the most…a backhanded compliment that leaves you wondering how the hell you are supposed to interpret it.
There are reasons these people are passing on their judgements and I get into it in the video. But remember it’s on them, not you. Look at what they are asking you to change and see if it’s something you want to change. If it’s not, then you may have just found one of your DAMMITs. That personality trait that makes you YOU.
Imagine if women in history had decided to let others dictate how they should act and behave. They never would have made history if they hadn’t embraced their personality and used it to go after their beliefs.
I want you to own your personality and shout it from the mountain top. I AM LOUD/QUIET/SENSITIVE/BLUNT and DAMMIT, I Like This About Myself. Join the Stop People Pleasing workshop and quickly embrace 2 personality traits that make you YOU.